Relationship + Leadership Coach for Men
Helping Men Build Powerful Relationships, Purposeful Lives, and Unshakable Confidence
“A man who sees, knows, and accepts himself becomes unstoppable—in love, in purpose, and in life. The relationship you have with yourself sets the standard for everything else.”
“This isn’t just any man.
This is the man others look to.”
The leader. The provider. The protector.
He may hold power at home, in business, or his community—
But power without self-awareness is dangerous.
When a man doesn’t truly know himself, his decisions rest on shaky ground.
Unspoken insecurities shape how he leads.
His need for validation seeps into love, leadership, and legacy.
That’s why the inner work isn’t optional.
For the man who influences others, knowing your wounds, truth, and power isn’t a luxury—it’s a responsibility.
Too often, even well-intentioned men lose themselves trying to do what’s “right.”
They forget what they stand for—disconnected from their desires, voice, and fire.
That disconnection breeds a quiet need for validation—from women, work, or kind sacrifices—just to feel worthy.
But that need erodes authenticity, weakens resolve, and breaks trust.
Relationships suffer.
Intimacy becomes fleeting and unfulfilling—lacking depth, presence, and real connection.
My name is Brian Christian Jenkins
I’m a speaker and men’s coach with over 15 years of experience living across Europe and working with men around the world. But this work didn’t start in a classroom—it started with my own reckoning.
In my 20s, I struggled with sexual performance and shame. I grieved the father I never fully knew, and I rebuilt my life after losing my marriage and leaving my home of 13 years in the Canary Islands. Through fasting in the desert, 10 days of silent meditation, and years on a men’s team, I learned to face myself—and rise.
Now, I help men do the same.
Not from theory, but from lived experience.
If you're ready to stop performing and start leading from your truth—let’s talk.
Reclaim your voice. Rebuild trust. Reignite your power in love, leadership, and life.
My mission is to guide driven, high achieving men
to fully unleash the Elite version of themselves
beyond their professional world.
Guiding Men…
Through Heartbreak
Through Separation, Breakups + Divorce
Through Stagnation + Complacency
Through Limiting + Destructive Self-Image
Through Sex and Porn Dependence
Through People-Pleasing and being a “Yes Man”
Through Frustration, Anger + Irritation
Through Uncertainty, Doubt + Lose of Direction
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Into Becoming…
Heart-Led + Purpose-Driven
A Man who Builds Dynamic + Thriving Relationships
Committed to his Evolution
A Master of his Sexual Energy + Power
Bold in his Authentic Expression
Grounded, Focused + Present
A Man of Truth, Integrity and Unshakable Confidence
What’s Possible for You?
It’s the version of you who leads from truth—not pressure.
The man who stops performing for the boardroom while quietly unraveling at home.
Who no longer sacrifices his health for the hustle, but trains with intention—because his body is a vessel, not a burden.
It’s the version who doesn’t just provide financially,
but is emotionally present in the kitchen, at the dinner table, and in late-night talks with his son.
The man who no longer needs to win every argument with his partner—
because he’s secure enough to listen, respond, and lead without needing control.
It’s the version who looks at the company he built, the influence he holds,
and asks: “Is this truly aligned with who I am?”
Then makes bold, necessary changes—even if no one claps.
This is the man who stops outsourcing his worth to achievement,
and starts living with integrity, depth, and unshakable clarity.
That’s the version of you I call forward.
That’s who we unlock together.
What other men & leaders say about Brian:
ARE YOU READY TO BECOME THE ELITE VERSION OF YOURSELF?
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